Coaching for women

You’re tired of ending up in the same place. Let’s change that.

I help women after betrayal, divorce, or unhealthy relationships understand why the same patterns keep showing up, and practice new ways to respond.

After betrayalAfter divorceRepeating patternsSingle or partnered
Book a 20-minute discovery call →

A quick, no-pressure chat to see if coaching is right for you.

Carla Payton
Carla PaytonCertified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach

Sound familiar?

You know something needs to change. You’re just not sure how.

You don’t need to have it figured out before we talk. Working that out is part of the process.

The 12-week program

What we’ll actually work on

Over 12 weeks of 1:1 coaching, we work through six areas using Integrated Attachment Theory. Each one builds on the last, so you leave with tools you can keep using.

01

Your beliefs

Spot the stories you tell yourself and start replacing the ones that hold you back.

02

Your needs

Get clear on what you need and practice asking for it.

03

Your emotions

Understand what happens when you’re triggered and how to work through it.

04

Boundaries

Set boundaries that stick, even when saying no feels hard.

05

Communication

Say what you mean in hard conversations, without the old script.

06

New habits

Notice old reactions and choose differently, in love and in life.

1:1 with CarlaPrivate coaching sessions focused on your situation.
Practice between sessionsSimple exercises to try in real life, not just talk about.
Tools you keepIAT tools you can use long after the 12 weeks end.
Carla Payton

About Carla

I’ve been where you are.

After ten years of marriage, I went through betrayal and divorce while raising three kids. Therapy, books, and podcasts helped me understand what happened. But I kept repeating the same patterns.

Integrated Attachment Theory gave me practical tools to change them. Now, as a Certified IAT Coach, I help women do the same.

Carla on the Personal Development School podcast

Featured guest on the Personal Development School podcast with Thais Gibson.

Questions

Good to know before you book

Who is this for?

Women who’ve been through betrayal, divorce, or keep ending up in unhealthy relationship patterns. You can be married, separated, single, or dating.

How does the coaching work?

It’s a 12-week, 1:1 program. We work through six areas, and you practice what we cover between sessions.

What happens on the discovery call?

It’s a 20-minute chat. You tell me what’s going on, ask any questions, and we see if the program is a good fit. No pressure either way.

Is this therapy?

No. I’m a Certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach, not a therapist. We focus on understanding your patterns and building practical skills.

Ready to stop repeating the same story?

Book a 20-minute call. We’ll talk about where you are and whether the 12-week program can help.

Book your discovery call →No obligation. Just a conversation.